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Are you afraid of letting others get close to you?

他人が自分に近づくことを恐れていますか?

たにんがじぶんにちかづくことをおそれていますか?

taninn ga jibunn ni chikaduku koto wo osorete imasu ka?

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Jun 6, 2022, 4:00 PM

Moro

多少は警戒するかも。

May 29, 2025, 11:37 AM

87morpheus

そう、もっと人に心を開くことに慣れようとしてるんだ

May 29, 2025, 12:19 AM

s1mply.raven

I suppose I’m in the middle. Yes but no

May 28, 2025, 11:35 PM

davee8178

Depends on the person

May 28, 2025, 11:35 PM

prisal

yes, i keep everyone at arms length

May 28, 2025, 11:09 PM

shutaro10_20

A little bit.

May 28, 2025, 11:06 PM

sasuchu

not really, they can get close to me, im just scared of getting close to them

May 28, 2025, 11:02 PM

morgana4ever

何回もほかの人に傷つけられたから、少し恐れているけど、やっぱり愛されたい❤️

May 28, 2025, 11:01 PM

foxsekai

時々

May 28, 2025, 11:00 PM

stone.free.124

I have a demon inside my heart so please don't be closer.

Jun 10, 2024, 1:11 PM

mikanebi

<:yes:1222451371907878935>

Jun 8, 2024, 4:27 PM

__orbit

I'm the opposite of afraid

Jun 8, 2024, 2:05 PM

iitai.uwu

yes

Jun 8, 2024, 12:52 AM

imdad.

少しずつ、あの人とお互いに信用できるようになって、お互いの幸せを願ったり、近づくことができる

Jun 7, 2024, 11:41 PM

t0457y

not really no

Jun 7, 2024, 11:39 PM

afkrobot

I am by personal choice open with a lot of people, but I definitely close off quite fast when I notice someone intentionally trying to bridge the gap. Apart from that, I am not sure what close means here. Many innermost thoughts, especially those I have trouble putting into words, are between me and, if anyone, my therapist. Those things do not concern anyone as they are not part of the person I chose to be.

Jun 7, 2024, 11:09 PM

clownspor

Yes 😇

Jun 7, 2024, 11:06 PM

worm68

if this person is a bear then yes definitely

Jun 7, 2024, 11:05 PM

kumori.xo

Yes

Jun 7, 2024, 11:03 PM

fedor.v.emelianenko

I've done judo and grappling, so it would be a bit of a problem if I was afraid lol.

Jun 7, 2024, 11:00 PM

not_neutral

Define “close”

Aug 26, 2023, 7:23 PM

soetch

well, i like physical touch but i'm getting more and more cautions of people approaching me since some things happened in the past

Aug 26, 2023, 3:44 PM

zero_ch.

Nah

Aug 26, 2023, 3:09 PM

natta999

Depend on context. But I doubt if anybody want to hug me from behind

Aug 26, 2023, 2:24 PM

dOga

nah, even if they do im not letting them to be that close to me 💀

Aug 26, 2023, 1:55 PM

fuffypanda

yeah

Aug 26, 2023, 1:31 PM

xunial

Uh depends, cause I don’t mind but I get rid of them quick if we don’t click

Aug 26, 2023, 12:21 PM

min_eb

Yeah.

Aug 26, 2023, 11:21 AM

takkun5591

If it's a woman approaching, I am very cautious. Mostly because bad things happen to me.

Aug 26, 2023, 11:06 AM

maribu0223

Not at all

Aug 5, 2023, 1:59 PM

min_eb

絶対そうですね 近づくこと恐れてるけど、近づきたい時もあるし、そんな時にも相変わらず近づくことは恐れてる感じでただの寂しいやつの完成でございますね

Feb 18, 2023, 8:42 PM

dOga

No, the others should worry if I get closer to them

Feb 18, 2023, 1:46 PM

galaxykinks

yes

Feb 18, 2023, 1:44 PM

fritoone

Not afraid, just cautious.

Feb 18, 2023, 1:38 PM

Mortibi

no

Feb 18, 2023, 12:33 PM

RockSalt

If it's just a few people then I'm alright. If it's a crowd, I won't be happy

Feb 18, 2023, 11:33 AM

Kizaru

ありませんけど、たくさんの人が自分に近づく時、時間がない、みんなに。

Feb 18, 2023, 11:01 AM

カラス

actually, other should be more afraid if i get close to em💀

Nov 25, 2022, 10:29 PM

(+_+)

Yes