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Do you hold grudges?

恨みをためるタイプですか?

うらみをためるたいぷですか?

urami wo tameru taipu desu ka?

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Jul 30, 2025, 12:22 PM

davee8178

Yes

Jul 30, 2025, 7:05 AM

sasfi84614

nope, grudges make me anxious so I don't hold any.

Jul 30, 2025, 6:10 AM

shutaro10_20

Umm… Actually, a little bit

Jul 30, 2025, 5:33 AM

meowkaburi

i do 🙏

Jul 30, 2025, 4:14 AM

111_smokey_111

My mercy prevails over my wrath

Jul 30, 2025, 12:56 AM

eighttttttttttttttttt

Y E S

Jul 30, 2025, 12:06 AM

dwoo_0312

Recently I’ve stopped holding grudges.

Jul 29, 2025, 11:26 PM

soysoldier

No. I have fixations, but that's not the same; it's just how my brain is wired. I don't believe that holding grudges or having regrets does any good.

Jul 29, 2025, 11:08 PM

usagimaru_bl

Yes

Jul 29, 2025, 11:06 PM

rushiki

Not at all

Jul 29, 2025, 11:06 PM

s1mply.raven

it genuinely depends on what the person has done. if it’s severe then yes, but other than that, no

Jul 29, 2025, 11:00 PM

foxsekai

nope

Jul 29, 2025, 11:00 PM

fenrir69084

no, i have mastered my emotions

Nov 20, 2024, 11:03 PM

mity.a

not really, i am very easygoing but i also know i have to set limits with certain people, which they might interpret as grudges

Nov 20, 2024, 3:43 PM

narwallcanart

yes but to selfish men (im a lesbian)

Nov 19, 2024, 9:08 AM

laika6485

はい…

Nov 19, 2024, 6:18 AM

stone_jp

I don't think I'm someone who holds grudges...or at least, I try not to. Holding a grudge only brings negativity because every time you think about that person, it brings back those bad feelings and leaves you feeling disgusted.

Nov 19, 2024, 6:06 AM

outcxst_00

Most of the time

Nov 19, 2024, 5:59 AM

afkrobot

My memory is unfortunately very good in that regard, so yes. I can and will bring up stuff that I took issue with from several years ago when sufficiently pissed off and there are people of whom my opinion is still coloured by something they did a decade ago.

Nov 19, 2024, 2:39 AM

linkyourlocalgod

most of the time no but if it's a warcrime on my person then yes

Nov 19, 2024, 1:08 AM

theonerohansimp

depends

Nov 18, 2024, 11:06 PM

__orbit

心臓が思く感じるので、そうしない。

Nov 18, 2024, 11:05 PM

jpac2559

じゃないです

Nov 11, 2023, 7:27 AM

maribu0223

I think so 😂😂

Sep 18, 2023, 11:54 PM

natta999

Hmm..... a lot, I love competition, 🕵️

Sep 18, 2023, 7:20 PM

sru3360

I forgive, but I don’t forget

Sep 18, 2023, 3:20 PM

jad_99

もちろん

Sep 18, 2023, 11:37 AM

takkun5591

I try not to hold a grudge in recently. It's so tiring to hold a grudge other.

Sep 18, 2023, 11:26 AM

xunial

Yes

Sep 17, 2023, 2:47 PM

min_eb

Nope, for grudges. But I'm terribly good at remembering what I suffered for, so I just never forget...

Aug 22, 2023, 4:23 PM

maribu0223

うん

Jan 20, 2023, 7:14 PM

Fif

..yes

Jan 20, 2023, 4:46 PM

it's a me

hmm 恨みね? 多分。。。恨みをためらない i'm taking this to mean grudge. so not really. resentment, yes (and in all my life it's only towards one particular thing lol). but "grudge" is too strong for me to use to describe it. resentment there is some but grudge no. ha! see that? I'm japanesing my english lol

Jan 20, 2023, 2:51 PM

きゅぴ🪼

yes!

Jan 20, 2023, 11:52 AM

Kizaru

はい…

Jan 20, 2023, 11:44 AM

fritoone

I try not to, but I’m not always successful.

Jan 20, 2023, 11:35 AM

まりぶpms

yes