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What is the most important trait you want your partner to have?

あなたが恋人に求める重要な要素ってなんですか?

あなたがこいびとにもとめるじゅうようなようそってなんですか?

anataga koibito ni motomeru juuyou na youso tte nann desu ka?

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Jul 3, 2025, 11:32 AM

sora25_25

Ability to relate to everyone with integrity.

Jul 3, 2025, 11:29 AM

shutaro10_20

Personality

Jul 3, 2025, 11:20 AM

amerikahitomonsuta

Honesty with herself and with me. That’s where the cooperation and the joy comes from in both of us. Allows for a baseline of concrete respect.

Jul 3, 2025, 11:04 AM

111_smokey_111

I don't really care I'm fine with anything at this point

Jul 3, 2025, 11:03 AM

jifeng3177

Stable emotions

Jul 3, 2025, 11:02 AM

jpac2559

頭脳

Jan 31, 2025, 3:45 PM

stibba2g4u

morality

Oct 3, 2024, 5:27 PM

narwallcanart

not sure umm not transphobic i gues

Sep 30, 2024, 11:24 PM

afkrobot

Self-awareness

Sep 30, 2024, 11:16 PM

jad_99

She has to be supportive

Sep 30, 2024, 11:11 PM

fedor.v.emelianenko

Honesty

Oct 7, 2023, 12:06 PM

min_eb

to behave what they think right.

Oct 5, 2023, 7:10 PM

sru3360

It’d be nice if they were someone who questioned things, and didn’t just follow the herd, but that’s not necessarily at the top of the list

Oct 5, 2023, 6:22 PM

natta999

strong enough to be my equal one, show me a trait of weakness or obedience then I will exploit until you can bear it no more.

Oct 5, 2023, 6:11 PM

nacricissa

Being purely theoretical

Oct 5, 2023, 5:27 PM

fritoone

My one non-negotiable is that he's gotta be a Christian and love God more than me.

Oct 5, 2023, 12:11 PM

umeshuwithsoda

I don't ask you to be masculine, so don't ask me to be feminine

Oct 5, 2023, 12:01 PM

takkun5591

I think I want her to have moderation and common sense. And, I think I want her have financial sense commensurate with income. That's about it. There is nothing special about appearance.

Oct 5, 2023, 11:17 AM

lobtergod

Thinks 60s, 70s, and 80s music tops all

Nov 13, 2022, 6:05 PM

jtrain

Probably someone who is cool with me and isn't like "wtf why is she like that." So like, nice but not a Nice Guy if that makes sense

Nov 13, 2022, 12:54 PM

ilikeyoo

it seems kind of cheesy, but i think the most important thing is probably trust? i feel amazing when i know someone can depend on me fully, and it's a great thing to know that you also have someone that will never turn their back on you

Nov 13, 2022, 12:37 PM

とうふ

I think i easily get influenced. Speaking from my experience, i first fall in love with someone and then end up liking everything about that person. Once i love someone i can tolerate most things and change my beliefs also to accept my partner in most cases. So I don't really have some categories that I look for in someone

Nov 13, 2022, 12:32 PM

fritoone

He’s gotta be Christian.

Nov 13, 2022, 12:32 PM

CRAZY_CATASTROPHE

I don’t plan on being in any sort of relationship for a long time, but I guess one thing I value a lot is honesty

Nov 13, 2022, 11:56 AM

まりぶ

I've been want various things greedly, but I don't think I would decide to break up because of that I think most important ting for me was if the person doesn't love the way I look, I will never choose him as a partner. I don't have time to date with a guy who says,"you don't look like my type, but I'm going to date you because you have a beautiful personality" or "I don't look for outside beauty in my girl friend, I like normal plain girls" or something like that. it's not too painful to wear clothes that the person prefer, but IF he think "I wish her nose was a little taller..." or "I wish her eyes were a little bigger...", I've been always suggest that just go on a date with cuter girl he thinks. It doesn't mean that external beauty is the most important thing. I just can't stand spending the most beautiful and younger time in me with someone who doesn't know how good it is.

Nov 13, 2022, 11:01 AM

カラス

boring answer but open minded..